Friday, June 28, 2013

Communication and mutual problem solving

Communication is seriously the best way to problem solve any sort of problem! Period.

On Thursday we went over the counsel method--I found it really interesting and helpful. And so, that is what will be discussed on this post.

The counsel method includes the following. We compared it to the way that the first presidency themselves counsel together once a week to solve any problems.

  • participants all reach a consensus and everybody is n agreement
  • regarding God's will
  • a clear structure is used
  • structured way of who goes first
  • intended for families
  • no interruptions, speak one at a time
  • learn to live the higher law
  • everybody has the opportunity to speak
  • planning to plan on a daily basis
I really liked this comparison because it is just so effective in getting things done and problems solved! If a family has a daily meeting per say, like FHE for example, they not only have the chance to grow together through constant interaction, but also any problems or concerns can be addressed. 

I really like this idea of having daily meetings as a family. I remember I did a similar thing with my family, but it never worked out because no one ever really paid attention and everybody wasn't really allowed to speak at a time because everyone seemed to talk at the same time.  A structured meeting day and time with chairs and notes and whatnot is not necessary, something as simple as taking a weekly trip to the park can serve and accomplish this purpose as well. 

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